“You don’t fit the mold because you were born to break it.”
From the trauma and woundedness of living lost in the sickness of the world to growing and finding a deep belonging and innate giftedness, living in service to life.
Service to Life Mentoring
Matthew McKinney RTC
A Counselling Therapist, Depth Mentor and Earth-Based Facilitator
“The health of the land is reflected in the balance of the people.”
– Hawaiian saying
🌱 You know we live in deeply challenging and transformational times. You can see it and feel it all around you. You long painfully to be a part of the change, seeing the systemic ills, desperate to do something, feeling a calling, but you are blocked. You’re wounded and traumatized. Your environment limits you. You’re stuck. You’re in conflict with yourself or others. You’re lost. “If only I lived in a village,” you think. You know you need the multi-faceted consistency of relationship that can help you heal and grow through your personal challenges and rise into who you know you are meant to be, but cannot yet quite grasp.
You are an active or would-be change-maker feeling often like you’re in a desert. You need a watering hole to nourish. You need relief, mentoring, guidance, holding, and healing. You know the teachings and practices are in your ancestry. They are a birthright to the whole of humanity, but they are beyond your grasp. You’ve tried traditional talk therapy, different workshops, sought different experiences that bring you beauty and meaning, but nothing seems to crest the edge of that elusive threshold and help you step fully into yourself.
You long for something old, ancient, and connected to lineage. You long to settle into a trustworthy and experienced perspective, and to feel that you are cared for in heart, mind, body, spirit, and soul. You know that if you just got what you need, you’d be the help for others you see they need too.
You’d jump to make that bargain, if you’re healed you’d help others too, but you don’t know how.
I offer a dynamic and interdisciplinary practice of depth-oriented, trauma-informed therapy rooted in nature connection, relational repair, and embodied transformation.
My approach weaves therapeutic training with over 16 years of experience in land-based healing, community mentoring, and systemic work. It’s unconventional — grounded in relationship, informed by ancestral wisdom, and shaped by years of holding people through deep change.
I support individuals, couples, and families through trauma, grief, addiction, conflict, neurodivergence, and life transitions — not just to find stability, but to uncover and expand the context of the pain, and to find the deep calling within the longing.
I believe, as you may too, that the wound is a doorway, a threshold to a greater life.
🏝 Where we begin:
Cultural Homelessness
-Feelings of alienation
-Disillusionment with society, other people, or our own capacities to do anything about it.
-Grief about the pain of the world
-A sense of not fitting or belonging
-Wounds that seem meaningless and without purpose
🏝 Where we are going:
Rooted Belonging
-Nervous system regulation
-Self-trust, inner authority, and sensory integration
-Relational coherence: Feelings of rightness within your relationships.
-A lived sense of belonging
-Capacity to stand inside one’s context without collapsing or rebelling unconsciously
Begin with a free 20-minute consultation
Schedule a free consult or therapy session below.
Multiple expressions. One thread.
In many Earth-based cultures worldwide, a counsellor is also a storyteller and musician.
This is because healing is not mechanical.
It’s not rational.
Healing requires an attunement to timing, to rhythm, to pressure, to the same dynamic creative tension and release found in inspiring music and storytelling.
A good counsellor as well as a good storyteller has the capacity to follow the creative spark of transformation, helping it to land, integrate, and stabilize into lasting change.
Anchored in lineage. Grounded in wildness. Important work you can trust in.
Testimonials:
“Matt McKinney’s grounded presence is a nourishing balm to the heart. His counselling gifts, methods and skills have anchored me back to my connection to self-worth and belonging. From the moment you arrive into his caring space, there is a deep land-based wisdom present in the room, in the field. His steadfast commitment to ever-growing his own connection to self, to teachings, to his teachers, to the Earth can be felt immediately. I was able to rest around the hearth-fire he creates as a counsellor, to be witnessed and held up inside my own innate resiliency and capacity, rewoven back to my own understanding of what it is to belong as human on this earth. I recommend sitting with Matt to anyone seeking deeper connection to themselves, to anyone seeking gentle but potent guidance on the journey of becoming whole.”- Client MM
“Matt is a skillful, compassionate therapist. I worked with Matt during a very difficult time in my life. In our sessions, I felt deeply seen, supported, listened to, and
safe to be honest with Matt and myself. Matt helped me tremendously to understand myself better and to move forward in positive directions. Thank you, Matt!” -L.G.
“During my series of regular bi-weekly counselling sessions with Matt McKinney, over a few months that felt extremely productive for me, we explored together every worry, concern or uncertainty that I brought forth as I faced what felt like an uncertain future.
Matt guided me into a level of clarity and empowerment I had never dreamed possible. He is a discerning listener. During our sessions I always felt perfectly safe, very well heard, and surprisingly well-understood, gaining insights and a level of self-confidence that I’d only imagined possible for myself.” – Client DL
“Matt is an excellent listener, through our sessions he provided deep reflections that helped me to let go and forgive myself and others. His work is rooted in compassion and I highly recommend his services.”- Client LM
Service to Life Mentoring also provides many experiential mentoring-based programs:
*NOT categorized as Registered Therapy!
Explore the 9 month Deep Immersion into Nature Connection, Community, and Cultural Repair I co-lead with Wisdom of the Earth School on Salt Spring Island, BC.
Contact me
Our challenges and our greatest sensitivities can point us toward that which we are uniquely gifted to affect positive change in our life and the lives of others. Therapy and mentoring help us to turn our challenges, our griefs, and our traumas into Gold.
Living a fulfilling life requires us to become unblocked by finding our way through. Help is cultural, relational, and natural.We each play our part.
You are worth it and your gifts are needed in this world.